Take time to reflect and understand your passions. When you do this, you’ll soon discover how to truly unleash your strengths. Writing everything down in a journal can be incredibly helpful. Sketch out who you want to be and what truly matters to you. This process helps you focus on what you really want in life and identify the strengths that will guide you.

For example, if you aspire to become a professional window cleaner, think about why you want to clean each pane of glass. Is it because, at some point, no one was there to wipe your tears when you felt overwhelmed? Life isn’t always about spotless, crystal-clear surfaces. Some mirrors remain stained by others who may appear beautiful on the outside but harbor harmful intentions within.

Recognizing your strengths begins with knowing yourself—simple as that. For instance, in Attack on Titan, Eren Yeager is a prime example of someone who knows exactly what he wants and is willing to do anything to achieve his goal, even if it means destroying half the world to protect his friends. On the other hand, Thorfinn from Vinland Saga offers a different perspective. As a child, his life fell apart, leading him to believe the world had cursed him. Yet, through reflection, he realized that no one is truly his enemy; they are just people shaped by their own battles. His understanding that no one in this world deserves to be hurt transformed  transformed his life.

Strength is often revealed through struggles and life’s journey. Some days, your strength may come from something as lighthearted as playing hide and seek in Roblox. Other days, it might come from enduring emotional hardships and breakdowns. Be patient through it all. Strength will emerge as you grow and persevere.